Question
In what state do you HEAL faster... in SOLITUDE or in COMPANY?
isolation or congregation?
Answer
Emotional healing has always been a multilayered process for me. I always have felt inclined to seek remedies and medication from my close ones, family and friends. Either seeking an ear that would listen, propping my head against a shoulder I could cry on or paying attention to their thoughts or advice for the best ways to deal with the hurt.brbrBut the actual healing from those wounds for me would usually take place in solitude, where I could be alone with my thoughts and where I could spend some time deliberating on all aspects of my hurt while taking into consideration all words of advice in the solitary comforts of my privacy. brbrI dont believe that anyone should be entirely alone in any healing process. Somehow, we do need support from others in our time of hurt. We do need to borrow some strength from the people around us before we could be strong enough to be able face the pain alone. brbrAnd sometimes, when one doesnt seek help for the medication needed, and simply retreats into oneself to nurse the hurt alone, the wound he carries might even fester further, and in the end refuse heal at all
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